Interesting! The definition of pathology is the inability to:
– consistently sustain positive change
– grow to any emotional/spiritual depth
– develop meaningful insight about how his or her behavior negatively effects others…
I was reading posts on one of the many “victims of narcissistic abuse” support forums and one of the women posted this link.
I found it very therapeutic, because as much as I hate to admit it; I do feel it isn’t fair he’s gone off and found “happiness” and is giving her all the things I had asked for and he denied me.
I know in my logical mind he hasn’t changed, simply by the way he treats me and talks about me. If he had changed he wouldn’t be lying now. He would admit his mistakes instead of still blaming me for everything.
If he had changed he would be getting hold of his sister and apologizing and at the very least he would have gone to her when she tried to commit suicide.
Anyway, following is an article that really helped me deal with “the new girlfriend”…
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